
Steph-
First of all, thank you for being such an inspiration! I regularly follow your blog and definitely think of you as the kind of climber I hope to be one day. l love reading about your adventures and your training advice for newer climbers. Also, I loved the clip of you in the Sender Films production “The Sharp End”!
I am currently at a crossroads and considering a “dirtbag climber” lifestyle. I have been admitted to a top graduate school for next fall but am considering giving it up to spend the foreseeable future driving around to different climbing destinations and living out of my car. Climbing has pretty much taken over my life and become my #1 priority. I just really love it. I find it simultaneously challenging and meditative, like nothing else I have ever done before.
The only thing is, to be honest, living out of my car as a single woman makes me more than a little nervous. It’s frustrating because if I were a guy I probably wouldn’t have to worry about it, but I do want to think through this through carefully. Do you have any suggestions for how to become a “dirtbag climber chick” and to do so safely? Also, any suggestions for good locations to go to first? Currently climbing at a 5.8-5.9 level and am looking to move up!
I’m sure you’re busy having lots of adventures, but any advice you have would be appreciated! Thank you for your time!
Shelby
Hi Shelby,
I have always had a truck, and sleep in the back of it, most of the time by myself and usually with a dog. I have never had any problems traveling alone in my truck. Having a dog is highly recommended. I read an article once where they interviewed prisoners who’d assaulted women, and the overwhelming majority of them said that if they saw a woman with a dog, they skipped her and looked for another potential victim because they didn’t want to deal with it.
You have to use basic common sense, as always in life: no sleeping at rest stops, no picking up hitchhikers. (Ever. Even if they look “okay.”)
There have been two occasions in my life where I felt nervous about being basically trapped in a box in the back of my truck while sleeping. I do have a slider window, through which I could theoretically wriggle and drive away if I had to. Realistically, that would not be very fast. I think if you are worried about being safe, having a van is the best way to go. Make sure to park in a way that if you ever feel widgy at a place, you can wake up, jump in the driver’s seat and bail immediately. You can also make sure to camp in places where your cell phone works.
Generally speaking, if you are traveling to different climbing areas, you will always be among other climbers, and safety is not really a major concern. Though it’s always good to think smart and stack the odds in your favor.
Steph